Take Care, With Love

Text and image for the 1st Oct 2020 edition of St Helens Star newspaper.

Around this time last year I had a market stall in Church Square, asking people to suggest spaces of care in St Helens (both formal spaces, for example support services, and informal spaces such as cafes and shops). It was also a great chance to talk about the meaning of care, who receives it and why. These conversations conducted over 4 months formed the Take Care St Helens map, officially launched at Heart of Glass’ arts festival for mental health Madlove Take Over in the former Argos store (Nov 2019) and featured in Wetherspoons News (March 2020).

Seven months into the pandemic, the days of sharing stories over a brew and a biccy seem like a distant dream. During this time we’ve seen a lot of suffering, disproportionately amongst the more vulnerable in our society. On the flip side, we’ve given and received tremendous acts of generosity, support, mutual aid and care for those around us.

That heady period of constantly adjusting to new norms or waiting for things to ‘blow over’ has given way to accepting we are in this for the long haul. Accepting this is the new reality gives me comfort, because we can imagine a new future, without spending effort to ‘go back’. Instead we can shape the new normal – to be fairer, equitable, better for as many of us. Could we do it from a place of care?

Acting with care means taking care of the people around us, but also holding to account the people we have trusted and given consent to look out for us. This means examining the structures we have in place through a lens of care. And if they are not doing this, knowing we have the power to change it.

Updated Take Care map

This updated map highlights a few of the ways people in St Helens have come together to care for others since March. These new additions to the original map (2019) are examples of people choosing to purposefully show care. We mark these acts not as extraordinary feats, but as demonstations of the possibility and reality of coming together to plan for the future. A care-full new normal. Digital version here

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